inside from out
we peek out
the life that carries on
I have been thinking a lot about windows.
I have always loved glancing into windows of the homes we pass by when we drive through neighborhoods.
Shakespeare said it best- “Eyes are the windows to your soul”.
We had a family picture taken recently at church. It’s nothing short of a minor miracle that both girls and hubby agreed to sit for a photo. As a mom of two teenage daughters, we have reached the stage where no pictures are taken without lots of preparation. Of course, I tell my girls how beautiful they are all the time… how they don’t need makeup. I tell them they could wear brown sacks and still be beautiful!
But I can sometimes be such a hypocrite.
Because the first thing I said when I saw the picture was how un-photogenic I am. I always have some strange expression on my face, I’m not looking in the right direction, I have a weird, “fake” smile, or my eyes are half-way closed. Any combination of those things is what I usually see when I look at a picture of myself.
And this photo brought out the same reaction in me. I actually laughed out loud at what my husband said to me when I showed the picture to him.
I said, “Look babe- it’s such a great pic of you and the girls! Not so great of me- I am always un-photogenic.”
Without skipping a beat, he says “what kind of super-model expectation do you have of yourself? It is a perfectly fine picture of you!”
Why can’t my eyes see the things that other people see in me?
I think social media is a huge culprit. Instagram and snapchat have these lovely filters that make you look like a million bucks. And then when you see pictures of other people online, many times we are looking at these same filtered photos- masking what people really look like.
That, along with all of the anti-aging ads for women doesn’t help our self-worth. There are literally hundreds of wrinkle creams- for your eyes, face, neck, lips… you name a body part, and I’m sure you can find the perfect cream to improve it. And hair- I have finally settled for the hair color with the least maintenance- highlights a few times a year. Low maintenance appearance is my goal!
What makes a house a home? It’s the love of the family that lives inside.
What makes a person beautiful? It’s not how few gray hairs you have, not how smooth your skin is, not being the perfect size. It’s not even about having the perfect smile, or outfit.
For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart. 1 Samuel 16:7
It’s what’s in your heart.
I want to see the world through His eyes. I want to see YOU through His eyes.
And in order to do that, we have to begin with seeing ourself the way He sees us.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well. Psalm 139:14
Let the light of Christ shine through your windows!
The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light- Matthew 6:22