these are the days
of loud music blaring in cars
girls belting tunes
as if they were the stars
these are the days
of selfies and laughs
dabbling in makeup
and perfecting the craft
these are the days
when emotions run low… and high
these are the days
that too quickly will pass by
I can hardly believe that my oldest daughter just turned 16. How did that even happen?! I remember finding out I was pregnant with her and the overwhelming joy I experienced when I held her in my arms as a newborn. It seems like yesterday, and yet it was a lifetime ago.
I remember celebrating all their “firsts”… the first smile, laugh, their first bite of baby food, sitting up, crawling, walking… the list goes on and on. It seemed like those days of them being children would last forever!
My youngest just got braces last week and lost her last baby tooth (finally!!) the week before. And after only a week, I look at her and see the remnants of her sweet baby face fading away…
Sigh.
Sixteen is way way to close to eighteen…and way too close to technically being an adult. And I am so not ready for that.
Not at all.
But life keeps on marching whether I’m ready or not!
So for today, I will savor every car ride with the girls and I’ll let them turn up the music. I’ll laugh along at their crazy stories and selfies. I’ll let them put makeup on me and style my hair, and I’ll let them invite their friends over often. And those moments when motherhood overwhelms and stresses me out- I will remind myself to soak up all the joy I can.
Because one day they will be out of the house and all will be quiet.
And that day is coming way, way too soon!
Train up a child in the way he should go,
[aAnd when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6
